The Cost of Survival Mode for Women
Survival mode feels like sprinting through life while weighed down by impossible expectations. For many women, especially mothers, it’s a state of perpetual action—chasing money, relationships, and physical comfort as society keeps moving the finish line. But this relentless pace comes at a steep cost, draining their ability to connect with their true selves and undermining their divine feminine essence.
Survival Mode vs. Divine Feminine
The divine feminine thrives in flow, intuition, and stillness—qualities necessary for growth and healing. However, survival mode forces women into constant action, leaving no space to receive the spiritual downloads and clarity needed to solve their problems. It's a direct opposition to the nurturing, creative energy that embodies divine feminine.
This imbalance is no accident. Society profits from women in survival mode. Women struggling to make ends meet often rely on daycare, fast food, and substandard housing. These are all industries thriving on the backs of overstretched women. The system is set up to ensure survival mode feels inescapable.
A System Stacked Against Women
Society idolizes successful mothers who are supported by successful husbands while discarding those without such resources. Or those who are simply not interested in Men or the partnership route. Single mothers, particularly, are marginalized, labeled as "vessels" in marketing schemes, and left unsupported. This isn’t a coincidence; it’s exploitation. Resources are dangled in front of them and they often have to intentionally under achieve to continue to receive the perceived help. They have to leave their young children in daycare or make the choice to parentify their older children if they have them. Statistics show alarming negligence by daycares and the most affordable facilities are often cold and filled with equally cold caretakers. These women have to pretend they dont know their children are not being properly cared for. They have to pretend it is temporary just to get through their days at work. Often filled with the anxiety of the school calling to tell them they need to leave work to pick up their child for any reason. Theres no money to be made from caring for their sick children. See, they were supposed to be home taking care of their families but society reminds them that any thing less than that dynamic is a failure and these women need to go back in time and choose better.
It's disgusting.
The lack of accountability for some men furthers this harm. These men may evade their responsibilities, using societal tools—courts and public opinion—to bully women into raising children alone. Even still, with all of that power in his hands, some men still choose to further disrupt the woman's life through narcissistic abuse. History shows that children bear the brunt of these dynamics, perpetuating a cycle of instability and exploitation that benefits a profit-driven system.
Breaking Free
Recognizing this system is the first step to breaking free. Women deserve to reclaim their time, energy, and divine feminine essence. Stillness isn’t a luxury; it’s a revolutionary act of self-preservation. Together, women can dismantle the structures that thrive on their exhaustion, creating a world that supports rather than exploits their innate power.
